I just don’t get why people need everything they do to be feminist though. It doesn’t invalidate your feminist beliefs or actions to do things that are not feminist. To center your feminism around embracing sex, femininity, heterosexuality, etc. is pretty pathetic and kind of just tells me that you’re not willing to change shit and want to reframe feminism around your own desires
how convenient, this was just reblogged. but anyway this post is kind of what i mean. people are very reluctant to not have things they like be feminist, but even worse anti-feminist. i feel like maybe in my liberal feminist-empowerment-individualism phase i would have been really offended by someone saying something i do is anti-feminist, but now that i conceptualize feminism as the liberation of women and elimination of patriarchy? not so much.